Memo From
A Child To Parents
1. Don't spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for. I'm only testing you.
2. Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel secure.
3. Don't let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.
4. Don't make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly "big".
5. Don't correct me in front of people if you can help it. I'll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.
6. Don't make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.
7. Don't protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.
8. Don't be too upset when I say "I hate you". Sometimes it isn't you I hate but your power to thwart me.
9. Don't take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.
10. Don't nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
11. Don't forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. That is why I am not always accurate.
12. Don't put me off when I ask questions. If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.
13. Don't be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.
14. Don't tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.
15. Don't ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither.
16. Don't ever think that it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.
17. Don't forget I love experimenting. I couldn't get along without it, so please put up with it.
18. Don't forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please do try.
19. Don't forget that I don't thrive without lots of love and understanding, but I don't need to tell you, do I?
20. Please keep yourself fit and healthy. I need you. muslimtoysanddolls.com is a charity site to help Muslims in need. The American Muslim Journal wrote a full page ad about my charity work with Muslims.The American state department interviewed me about my charity work and wrote an article and published it on america.gov.Ponn sabra of americanmuslimmom.com magazine the largest Muslim online magazine in the world with one million unique views a year did two podcasts on my charity wrok with Muslims.muslimtoysanddolls.com is an international Islamic website with over 2,600 products for the whole family.we sell 750 different Islamic dolls the most of any website in the world.250 Eid decorations,250 Islamic decorations,Islamic and learning Arabic and Arabic electronic toys,games,and puzzles,500 Islamic and Arabic books for children,100 gold Allah pendants,handmade childrens prayer rugs over one hundred styles,adult prayer rugs,and much more.shop here to help Muslims and get great Islamic and Arabic gifts.toll free business number 9787885028 toll free in the virgin islands,puerto rico,mexico,canada,and the USA and please leave a message if none answers.info@muslimtoysanddolls.com fee aman Allah,Sister Debbie Al-Harbi
A Child To Parents
1. Don't spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for. I'm only testing you.
2. Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel secure.
3. Don't let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.
4. Don't make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly "big".
5. Don't correct me in front of people if you can help it. I'll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.
6. Don't make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.
7. Don't protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.
8. Don't be too upset when I say "I hate you". Sometimes it isn't you I hate but your power to thwart me.
9. Don't take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.
10. Don't nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
11. Don't forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. That is why I am not always accurate.
12. Don't put me off when I ask questions. If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.
13. Don't be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.
14. Don't tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.
15. Don't ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither.
16. Don't ever think that it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.
17. Don't forget I love experimenting. I couldn't get along without it, so please put up with it.
18. Don't forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please do try.
19. Don't forget that I don't thrive without lots of love and understanding, but I don't need to tell you, do I?
20. Please keep yourself fit and healthy. I need you. muslimtoysanddolls.com is a charity site to help Muslims in need. The American Muslim Journal wrote a full page ad about my charity work with Muslims.The American state department interviewed me about my charity work and wrote an article and published it on america.gov.Ponn sabra of americanmuslimmom.com magazine the largest Muslim online magazine in the world with one million unique views a year did two podcasts on my charity wrok with Muslims.muslimtoysanddolls.com is an international Islamic website with over 2,600 products for the whole family.we sell 750 different Islamic dolls the most of any website in the world.250 Eid decorations,250 Islamic decorations,Islamic and learning Arabic and Arabic electronic toys,games,and puzzles,500 Islamic and Arabic books for children,100 gold Allah pendants,handmade childrens prayer rugs over one hundred styles,adult prayer rugs,and much more.shop here to help Muslims and get great Islamic and Arabic gifts.toll free business number 9787885028 toll free in the virgin islands,puerto rico,mexico,canada,and the USA and please leave a message if none answers.info@muslimtoysanddolls.com fee aman Allah,Sister Debbie Al-Harbi




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